Category Archives: Empowerment

The Truth About Snowflakes

Posted on February 7, 2017 by bonnevivantelife

Being called a “snowflake” these days is supposed to be a derogatory term, insinuating someone is so delicate they get offended too easily. Being a “snowflake” is supposed to mean someone feels so special and unique they are entitled to … Continue reading →

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Grace in a Tree

Posted on January 4, 2017 by bonnevivantelife

Turns out that you can invite grace into your life, into your home, but grace doesn’t automatically make your life or home calmer or better or more joyful. Continue reading →

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How to Heal Our Country

Posted on November 20, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

It has been 12 days since the election. I have been sitting with it all, not sure what to say, think, write. Everyone has something to say. It’s hard for me to take it all in, to sit and listen … Continue reading →

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Apple of My Eye

Posted on October 15, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

It’s apple season. And apples really don’t fall far from the tree. I have always said La Chica is an apple that didn’t fall far from the Momma tree. It’s clear she’s stubborn, fierce, and feels things much more intensely … Continue reading →

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How to Stop Your Own Suffering

Posted on April 29, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

When people ask what benefits I derive from my meditation practice, I find myself at a loss for words. Imagine that, me of all people not able to provide a sufficient answer. I know what it feels like, I know … Continue reading →

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How to Die Happy

Posted on February 26, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

We all curate our personal brand on social media platforms now. As authentic as I proclaim to be, I admit that there is definitely some curating going on. Like I clear the clutter in the house before people come over, … Continue reading →

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Lessons From Parental Discretion

Posted on February 21, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

  I love being in my band, Parental Discretion. We have really cool t-shirts, but more importantly, playing music with other people is magical. Being held accountable by your band members makes me a better drummer. I’ve only been playing … Continue reading →

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Celebrating Valentine’s Day as a Single Woman

Posted on February 14, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

Most of the time I’m pretty good with minding my own business. With living the life I want, and not what society expects of me. With not picking up the pressures society tries to foist on my back. By “most … Continue reading →

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How To Turn Feral Cats into Boy Leaders: Step 1

Posted on February 5, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

I don’t know if you’ve ever had the pleasure of trying to lead 35 Boy Scout tweens and teens through a process to build independence and leadership. I have not, and I do not envy our selfless Scoutmaster. For a … Continue reading →

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Vibrations of the Soul

Posted on January 17, 2016 by bonnevivantelife

My friends know it’s a rare occasion if they call at the last minute to hang out, and I’m actually available. I lead a full life, and between my work, my kids, their activities, my hobbies, and my social life, … Continue reading →

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